Q. The post-nuptials first dance is a big deal these days. It’s not unusual to find painstakingly chosen songs, dance lessons, choreographers … Which songs are we most likely to hear during this high-stakes first dance? . A. Last year, The Knot surveyed 10,000 married couples around what they see

Q. Happy Halloween! Which mini treats are most likely to go in your ‘one for me’ pile? What are the most popular Halloween candies this year? . A. Out with their annual ratings, Candy Store has catalogued the most popular Halloween Candies in the US – based on their sales

Q. Ok, ok, Duo. Voy a practicar mi espańol. No need to get all side-eye attitudinal. In the interim, you’ve sent me 20 different ways of saying the word ‘ouch’ in a variety of languages. I’m not sure what you have planned, but how does one ‘ow’ cross-culturally? . A.

Q. Speaking of ‘pulling out all of the stops’: when you look into creators of stunning organs, the Quebec-born Casavant Brothers come up a lot. Who were they, and how did they develop such a glittering reputation as organ crafters? . A. Papa Casavant – born 1807 in La Présentation-de-la-Sainte-Vierge

Q. Back in the day, the quince was it… the ‘Golden Apple’ of Ancient Greece, no less. This proud Maloideae member of the flowering Rosaceae family – with cousins that include apples, pears, and serviceberries – starred in stories of Hercules, Aphrodite, and Venus. With origins in the Caucasus Mountains,

Q. Is ‘That morning coffee (brewed it for ya (yes)’ a merry ear worm for you? Well, get ready for an extra shot of caffeine on Halloween night. Google Trends tells us that Sabrina Carpenter and her sparkly corset is the 9th most searched Halloween costume for 2024. And you

Q. They are the best of friends. There for you when things are going annoyingly well. There for you when things have slid into the muckiest of bogs. Now, they’re coming for dinner. Let’s fancify all the best flowers, foods, throw pillows, drinks. For them, we’ll pull out all of

Q. The freedom of your own wheels – for a day, for a weekend, for real. How have artists over the decades captured car life? . A. Do any of these renowned paintings remind you of your own car experiences, in youth and beyond? . . Ramon Casas. Ramon Casas

Q. How to capture the soul of a big city in a single stem flower? Plenty of cities haven’t been granted their own flowers – rude. They have to share petals with other urbanites in their states, provinces, territories. What are some cities that have been accorded their own blooms?

Q. How and when did chocolate become so popular at weddings? A. Photo-engraved chocolate bars, DIY chocolate buffets, chocolate dipped meringues, pyramids, bacon, truffle diamonds. Every year, brides and grooms get more creative in how they work chocolate into their wedding days. And why not? If you’re going to incorporate one